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What a Year! 2013 in Review

January 7, 2014 by Emilee Evans

2013 has been an interesting year to say the least! I spent much of the year in “we could move at any time” mode. My husband was in the process of getting medically retired from the Army. We expected it to be over in March. Long story short, we moved at the end of September! The problem with the “we could move at any time” mentality is that I put off a lot of things with the thought that “we’ll be moving soon.” I didn’t join activities, groups, etc., and I didn’t complete projects that I knew would have to be taken down or taken apart for the move. As the months went on I started to regret that decision, but I still didn’t know when we were moving, so I still just stayed in that mentality.
It definitely didn’t mean I didn’t do anything, though! 2013 was one of my busiest years!
2013 in review
One of the most exciting highlights of 2013 was joining the Schoolhouse Review Crew! It was a blessing in so many ways! I have met and become “virtual friends” with so many wonderful homeschooling moms and bloggers. Plus I got to review some amazing curriculum and share our experiences with you. I loved the feedback I got on products from parents that just needed to know more or how it would work for their family who may have a special needs child like ours. I have a heart for helping others, and I was so blessed by the feedback I received!
In 2013 I also focused on branching out and establish my voice in the homeschooling community, and it’s been a blessing to know I have helped others through my reviews and other homeschooling posts. Although homeschooling was always a topic I covered on Pea of Sweetness, it was really just a “part of our every day” subject, and I love that it’s become more of a focus. I’ve particularly felt called to share my heart and posts pertaining to Special Needs Homeschooling as well, which has also been a tremendous blessing!

Homeschooling Special Needs

In fact, Pea of Sweetness went through a lot of changes in 2013. Some of the changes were intentional, but others weren’t. I loved the direction I was taking, but as I continued to grow I got more and more offers for reviews and giveaways. I discovered I absolutely LOVE doing them. I really do. Closer to the end of the year, though, I felt like I strayed from my focus, though, which is why I opted to create Deals of Sweetness so I can still offer family-friendly and eco-friendly reviews and giveaways, and make sure those that are shared on Pea of Sweetness stay within the niches of homeschooling, homemaking, parenting, and natural/eco-friendly living (though many eco-friendly reviews and giveaways will migrate to Deals of Sweetness as well).
In reflecting upon why I strayed, though, the answer wasn’t solely because I got too busy or had too many products to review. The answer was I was hurting. 2013 was really, really hard for me, and I was trying to put on a brave face. Our “baby” was growing up (and we aren’t able to have anymore children), I didn’t have many friends and felt a disconnect with the military spouse community, and the stress of the “we could move at any time” mentality really was hard for me. I had some health issues that had gotten pretty bad as well and had multiple trips to the Emergency Room myself. My husband’s health problems were becoming more severe, and he was getting diagnosed with a new medical condition (as a result of the chemotherapy he had for his cancer treatment 3 years ago) almost every couple of months. It was overwhelming.
So I would come on here wanting to share inspiration, but I didn’t have any. I felt defeated. I wanted to share some wonderful parenting posts, but I didn’t know what to say because I was feeling so emotional about the fact that our youngest was moving on from what I had enjoyed sharing all along. I felt like I didn’t measure up to all the wonderful bloggers I had met, and I felt like most of them had no interest in my blog because of that. I felt like I had very little to offer. So, I fell back on what I could offer, and I “lost my voice.”
I also reflected more on what I do offer and realized I’m NOT like everybody else, and that’s OK because if we were all the same, it would be boring! God doesn’t call us all for the same purpose. I realized I kept losing focus on Him because I cared so much what everybody else thought. This is one of the lessons that will refine me as I noted in my Word for 2014.
Refine
So you could definitely say I had an emotional (and busy) 2013. Even so, I stepped out of my comfort zone, and we got to do some amazing things as well! We got to enjoy a mini vacation to Houston for the 4th of July and the LEGO® KidsFest Texas. When we moved to Houston in October we also enjoyed the Wings Over Houston Air Show and the Haute Wheels Food Truck Festival.
I did also miss out on a few things like The Declare Conference (that’s when I was really sick), and the Bloggy Conference (because we were packing up for our move). So that was a bummer, but I’m excited I still got to connect with many of the great bloggers and hope to meet them this year! I hope to attend some homeschooling conventions as well as some other blogging conferences! I’m putting my lists together soon!

Other Highlights from 2013

  • All three children were in Occupational Therapy and came a long way with both fine motor and gross motor skills! Our boys were also in speech, and our oldest son is now completely caught up! Our youngest son is even talking in sentences! It’s awesome!
  • I admitted I’m not Supermom and shared a look into a day in our life.
  • My blog got hacked a couple of times, then it got fixed, moved hosts, and it even got a makeover!
  • We changed our homeschooling year. I discovered following the calendar year would be much better for us as it doesn’t have the holiday break interrupting the school year we just started. So we plan to school straight through – knowing we’re going to take breaks. Sometimes it’s a couple of days. Sometimes it’s a full week. The new schedule allows us to do that.
  • I found out I have Sensory Processing Disorder like our younger two children.
  • I started my Etsy Shop.
  • We celebrated Earth Day
  • The kids had their first dentist appointment. We unfortunately discovered our oldest is prone to infections. He had to have a couple of teeth pulled. Between that and just losing his baby teeth, he was missing quite a few teeth for a while!
  • Our little man had his adenoids removed.
  • I received some awards for Pea of Sweetness!
  • I started my Grammar 101 Series and hope to come back to it soon! I think it definitely needs more!
  • My husband did finally get medically retired from the Army, and we moved back to the Houston area at the end of September.
  • Not only did I get to host some great giveaways, but I won some great giveaways as well – like an iPhone 5S!
  • I started Deals of Sweetness near the end of November.

For more 2013 Highlights from my blog be sure to check out my Top 13 Posts of 2013!
Top 13 Posts
A lot of bloggers from the Schoolhouse Review Crew have been looking back on 2013 as well. Check out all the great posts by clicking on the banner below!
Looking Back at 2013

What were some of your highlights for 2013?

Homeschooling: 2012 Recap

December 30, 2012 by Emilee Evans

2012 has been interesting for us in many ways. We began many new adventures! In January we were still settling in to our house on Fort Hood after moving down here from Fort Belvoir near Washington DC just a couple months prior. I knew I was going to continue homeschooling even though we had just begun. I did my research to find Texas is a VERY homeschooling friendly state! Whereas Virginia required my diploma, letter of intent to homeschool, and a curriculum, Texas didn’t require any of it! I was looking forward to the ease of transition at least for homeschooling since many are aware moving with special needs kids is definitely NOT an easy transition! We actually delayed finishing up our homeschool year quite a bit, but because I knew 1st Grade would recap a lot of Kindergarten and Brayden overall seemed ready, we decided to take the summer off anyway. I was hoping my instincts were right. Praise the Lord they were!
You may remember the pictures I posted on our first day of the 2012-2013 year. If not, or if you missed that post, let me share again!

Homeschool

I know I mentioned the curriculum we chose. What I may have failed to mention (OK, I’m almost certain I did) is that I had every intention of starting Aurora at the 1st Grade Level with Brayden. I would teach them simultaneously, and if I needed to fall back to Kindergarten for workbooks, etc. I would. That’s one thing I love about homeschooling – the flexibility! I know many that their children do one grade level for a certain subject and another grade level for other subjects. This allows them to be THEM. I think like a lot of things we try to put education in a box – a “this is what they SHOULD do” box. I knew she was ready for more because she was bored last year with the Preschool level, so I let her do some Kindergarten work, and she was even bored with that! I want our kids to always be able to learn at their full potential. Clearly, though, I was afraid I would receive some backlash, negative comments, etc. because you can see I put “Kindergarten” on her sign. Well, we are halfway through the school year, and she has only done Kindergarten work once this whole time. Otherwise, she has been plugging away with her big brother on the 1st grade curriculum, and they are both doing great!
I also told myself we would do “more” this year as far as group field trips, co-ops or other type of group activities, and between their having therapy 3x per week, my husband’s doctor appointments, and sharing one car, it really hasn’t worked out well for us. There are a few things I’ve learned, though, in our attempts:

  • If it requires us to leave the house before 9am, accept that it won’t work out. I tried this a few times just to end up with major meltdowns, and we stayed home. It can be somewhat frustrating, but I have to remember this is who we are – special needs and all, and mornings just aren’t a good time for us.
  • If it’s on a therapy day it makes for too long of a day, which may seem OK until that night. I had to evaluate the situation and determine it wasn’t worth the emotional overload it put on them.
  • It’s not required, and it’s not “hurting” them. Again, I feel as homeschoolers we get a lot of pressure, and “socializing” is one of them. They are in therapy 3x a week, which gives them a chance to interact with different people all the time. Plus we go out and about a lot, so they are constantly around others. They actually do better in natural situations versus planned situations. Looking back on it, I don’t feel any regret and will continue to do what is best for our family’s needs versus what people “think” we need. Besides, God new what He was doing when he blessed us with this opportunity, and He does a great job taking care of us! And yes, I’ll say it, “I socialize my dog, I educate my children.” I particularly like that quote because I used to be a dog training, and I always talked about socialization, and that is always what I think of when people use the term “socialize” with children.

I haven’t given up altogether on group activities, but it’s definitely hard to find any that work around such a tight schedule. I also think it will go over much better once Chaz is a little older because he is often the one that has the hardest time with those type of adventures, and then that rubs off on his older siblings (and me), and then everyone is unhappy! We are part of a few groups here, and at the very least we get a lot of great ideas for things we can do on Tuesdays or Thursdays (when they don’t have therapy).

Homeschool

Overall, the 2012-2013 year has started out great despite not going the way I had hoped with the groups. Brayden did graduate to a bigger desk than the one pictured above, but it took a lot of convincing to give up his beloved Thomas desk! Brayden and Aurora are both doing really well, are getting better with handwriting (which is a challenge for both due to motor skill challenges that are also being addressed by their Occupational Therapists), are reading short words and even some short, simple sentences, and are doing great in Math! Aurora is a little artist and is great at drawing, and Brayden is a “thinker” and is great at puzzles and strategy type scenarios. I’m really excited we’ll have a chance to review some new curriculum this year as well. Even Chaz is going to start doing a little bit of “school!” He generally entertains  himself on the iPad while I teach his siblings, but at least there are some great learning apps!

I will be doing a half-year evaluation next week just to gauge how we’re doing in terms of academics as well as implementing an SEP for all 3 kids like the one I discovered on SchoolhouseTeachers.com. I feel really great about where we are, though! I am definitely looking forward to the next half of this school year and many more to come!

Read some other great 2012 reflections from the Schoolhouse Review Crew Blog Cruise!

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